Completely Surrounded by Legalism

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I've been kinda all over the place lately. Before this week I'd had so much work to do with midterms and group projects and lab work and way too many cell phone games. Unfortunately that meant I was spending very little time with God. Every day started sleeping in and waking up 55 minutes before I needed to be somewhere and there were no breaks even on Sundays since my groups needed me to meet up after church. I was so exhausted all the time and just had this feeling of emptiness and hopelessness. Seemed like no way out of the constant stream of responsibilities and was just being worn away.

I also have realized that I don't deal well with challenges or problems that I need to get through. Typically pretending they don't exist or just installing rules to minimize the effects.

By my own power, I will waste away and burn myself out rather than take help.

Just before the two weeks of dry times I heard clearly the phrase "you need me". And by simply observing my actions, it seems like I would disagree. I was trying to accomplish everything: minister to my friends, get all my work done, lead bible studies, figure out my future; everything on my own and it felt hopeless.

Our salvation is by faith, not by works.

Again, my actions, clearly not agreeing. But I think it wasn't so much I didn't know that, but that I'm not really putting it into practice. Luther said "If I fail to spend two hours in prayer each morning, the devil gets the victory through the day. I have so much business I cannot get on without spending three hours daily in prayer" which seems crazy, but fully reliant on God. Now even with me doing all these things and everything, I know it isn't by works. I love sharing the gospel. What does this mean? It came to me that part of why I love ministry so much is simply that in it is where I see God at work, I see Him doing amazing things and I feel much closer to Him and tangibly can see the gospel at work.

Later into the two weeks I heard another phase audibly "completely surrounded by legalism". Which was kinda harsh to me. It was convicting. But I didn't react in action. I kept to my current life of empty endeavor by my own strength. By this week I was kinda just falling apart.

Certain areas of sin in my life are becoming more 'active' so to say. Again my reactions are to enforce legalism, which will never solve the problem. I've read a bit recently in a couple books that recommend taking radical action against sin, but clearly state these things are merely to help get you to a place where you can more easily be free to call on God to help you and grow in Him. And the idea that stuck from Overcoming Sin and Temptation that I am currently thinking about was Owen's comment towards Catholicism of how they (and people in general) end up looking to these rules and regulations as the end goal rather than a simple helpful step, or the idea that we get so stuck on "well, this isn't as bad as that" when the true thought should be comparing to purity not worse impurity.

Hmmm.

The coolest things though is that it is so clear how God is pursuing me. A year ago I had a friend who was really struggling with motivation and had a huge essay due and didn't care that much. The day it was due God really spoke to her and showed her how our relationship with God isn't one sided, that God is fighting for us, not just reciprocating our efforts. Her favourite phase was "God is soooo BIG!" Which really doesn't mean all that much to me in the literal size, but I think I am starting to understand a bit of it in the not literal.

These weeks I've heard God speak a couple times directly (which I nearly never do / I should be listening more), had so many awesome things happen (ran into a guy AM and had an awesome conversation about Jesus), felt clearly provided for after essentially starving on Friday and He provided meals and warm places and smiles, and truly speaking through worship times and his word more recently.

God is seriously pursuing me, despite how distant I am currently being.

God is good.

All the time.

This week I really pray I'd be able to spend more time with Him and meditate on His word throughout the days. May a real relationship with Him free me from legalism and allow me to freely live in Him.

D.Fa